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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
DATING A BUSY MAN WHEN THE CLOCK IS 'TICKING


Hello Alex,


I'm grateful for the opportunity you have given to people to voice out their concerns and making us have a place to call home.


I'm an ardent BV and I really don't know where this my question or story fits.
I'm just interested in knowing how people who are dating or married to doctors cope. I'm 32, started dating a doctor about 6 months ago but we don't see or even talk. He talks to me like twice in two weeks and always giving the 'I am busy'‎ kind of excuse.


I'm not getting younger and I always crave attention, sincerely, I don't know how to approach this issue. Sometimes, I feel I'm not being considerate and I'm asking for too much.


Please, help me out before I lose my senses!




Did you say dating?from what you described it isnt a relationship at all.when a man loves a woman he will make out time to see her.it sounds like you are the side chick.check well again




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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO


WHEN HIS GIRLFRIEND FALLS IN LOVE WITH YOU...


Hello Alex,
hope this mail meets you in good condition and keep up the good work,. Im an ardent reader of you blog and sometimes I comment under the name "******" lemme go straight to my issue......


I have this close friend of mine, we have been friends for like ages, did everything together and pretty close( though we are worlds apart, he is calm and gentle, im more of a cassanova and funny) We are both entrepreneurs and even though i dont want to admit it, i do pretty better than him and i am more open (he is very reserved).


The problem is more than 1 occasion when he introduces me to his gf, they end up breaking up with him their reasons is because they like me ( abi love me) more than him, i just cant understand, his very first gf broke up with him few days after meeting me and told me she prefers me to him ( though im more handsome than him) she didnt tell him her reason for breaking up but i knew and i didnt tell him (maybe because i slept with her).


Fast forward few months later he finds another girl of his dreams and the same thing happens, she told me she loves me and if i accept her she will break up with him, but i felt bad cos he is like a brother to me and i told him abt what she said and wants, he got angry and almost beat her to a pop, finally they broke up after police was involved....


Weeks back we traveled for a business proposal and he met this cute lawyer and somehow he introduced me to her as his brother... Fast forward to some days now, he lost his phone so he uses my phone to call her, now i have her number and we do chat on whatsapp, only for her to tell me she likes me and wants to break up with this dude again......


Alex at first it was fun and i felt flattered but now its looking weird and annoying.... Please i
Need fellow BVs advice!!!!!! I like this cute lawyer and besides she is endowed..... What should i do?